I CRY AFTER S€X COS OF GUILT, BUT I LOVE HER/HIM
Having premarital sex and crying afterwards because of guilt and going back to do it again does not make you a hypocrite. It only shows you are human and you cannot help yourself.
A good number of young people who desire to have healthy and pure relationships end up being pressured into having sex but the mistake we make is that we try to change these people who have shown us that they don’t care about displeasing God.
At the end of the day, we may even ask them to pray with us for forgiveness. Then we lie to ourselves that they will change and as we struggle to live pure lives, this same thing keeps pulling us down.
Dear young person, I know you love him/her and you wish they will just be on the same pedestal as you to please God in your relationship.
But know that it is easy for them to influence you to sin than for you to pull them up to see the light.
The devil is wise and his tactics are very subtle.
I will advise you to flee if you keep falling back to this cycle over and over.
I know you’re scared of finding someone who will love you but remember that for someone to love you wholly, they must love and honour God.
So many relationships end and many partners cheat because they don’t have a higher power they have submitted their hearts to and so are not afraid of hurting their partners.
I know this message may not be for everyone, but hey! if it is for you and you’re struggling, don’t let them tell you that ‘that little sin is not enough reason to break up’.
You know what you want and pleasing God supersedes all else and believe me you will find someone who will hold your hand and build a godly relationship.
Don’t let popular culture deceive you and think everyone is displeasing God or sneaking around.
Keep friends who will encourage you.
Yes, you may have fallen or may even fall again, but don’t give up the fight. It will be your story to encourage someone else.
But first, you have to keep your heart pure. Sexual purity is not just about abstaining from sex, but keeping your mind, eyes, ears, and lips free of things that suggest sexual immorality or lust.
I pray we all live to fulfill God’s purposes for our lives.
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