MY MAN IS BROKE???
I hear a lot of women bash broke men and women who support their upcoming partners..
They say things like “if you cannot take care of me, don’t ask me out”, “if you can’t buy me hair, what am I doing with you”?
Then, you begin to look at your hardworking man who loves you to bits and start to consider leaving him.
Let me gist you.
You see some of these celebrities and other well-to-do women who claim that they can’t date broke men, most of them are housing their men, they are sponsoring their own weddings, they gift their men more than their men gift them.
Look at Tonto Dike, if anyone told you she sponsored her wedding with Churchill, would you have believed?
Someone would have seen that wedding and pressured her fiancé to do same or risk losing her.
Don’t let social media deceive you oh.
Hold the treasure God has given you well and appreciate him/her.
Build with them and pray for them.
You see those ladies who have nothing doing and are quick to bill their men?
Pls, change today.
Imagine if the roles were switched. Would you date yourself?
If you don’t have much money now, there is nothing wrong with that, but don’t be overly demanding.
Don’t make your man run into debts to please you and don’t pressure him to do illegal business just to satisfy you.
Stop threatening a man with break up because he has not balanced well now.
Tomorrow some will say “after staying with him when he had nothing, he left me”.
It’s not just about staying with him when he has nothing, did he have peace? Or were you reminding him everyday how broke he was and how you deserve better?
He will know you’re only there in case he makes it in life and not really because of love.
Recently I have heard so of many celebrities calling off their weddings and engagements. It may not be because of money, just so you know that money is not the only basis for love.
When you have a man who loves you, who loves and honours God, cherishes you, respects you, rides with you, supports you and even gives you the little he can, and does not abuse or cheat on you, who is hardworking and always looking for ways to better his condition legally,, please love him and appreciate him expect you have no feelings for him.
Work on yourself too so you can be a supportive partner. Don’t you like the sight of women buying cars, shoes and other things for their men?
Erase that entitlement mentality from your mind that he must always buy for you.
Learn to buy for him too, surprise him, recharge his phone, send him money etc.nothing bad will happen to you.
Please and please, be an independent woman as well. Life happens. If he decides to be wicked and leave you, you won’t cry that you have invested all your life in him. Get something doing and have your own money too.
Stop letting what people paint on social media deceive you. Most women are supporting their men out there but most will not accept it just to protect the man’s dignity.
If you lose a good man because of greed and laziness, na you sabi.
Credit: Jumbo Kendra